A Friend Like No Other

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There are several examples of true friendship found throughout the Bible. Yet, in my experience, genuine friendships are hard to find. True friends are characterized by loyalty, commitment, and sometimes sacrifice. They share important truths that impact one another’s lives, and they do not display competitive jealousy or rejoice in another’s downfall. A true friend celebrates their friend’s success and supports them when things don’t turn out as expected. Biblical friendship goes far beyond convenience—it reflects a heart of faithfulness.

One of the clearest examples of loyal friendship is found in the relationship between David and Jonathan. Jonathan’s devotion to David is remarkable. Even though he knew David had been anointed as the next king of Israel, Jonathan did not allow jealousy or personal ambition to interfere with his love. Instead, he protected David from his own father, King Saul, who sought to kill him. Jonathan willingly laid aside his royal privilege for David’s safety. That kind of selfless, sacrificial loyalty is rare.

Another beautiful picture of friendship is seen in Ruth and Naomi. After the deaths of her husband and sons, Naomi decided to return to her homeland of Bethlehem. Ruth, her widowed daughter-in-law, refused to let her make the journey alone. Leaving behind her own family, culture, and country, Ruth chose to walk alongside Naomi and care for her in her old age. Ruth’s love was not expressed merely in words, but in action. Her commitment demonstrates that true friendship is proven through faithfulness and loyalty.

We also see a united friendship in Daniel and his three companions—Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego. Together, they resolved not to defile themselves by eating from the king’s table. Their unity in faith strengthened their obedience to God. True friends help one another stand firm when compromise is tempting.

Yet, as meaningful as these friendships are, there is one Friend who surpasses them all. Proverbs 18:24 tells us, “There is a friend who sticks closer than a brother”—and His name is Jesus. You can pour out your heart to Him and reveal your worries, anxieties, fears, and things you feel you cannot share with others. He has our best interests at heart and will always guide us in the right direction. Jesus called His disciples friends in John 15:15 because He shared with them everything the Father revealed to Him. He prayed for them continually and proved His love not only by His words, but by laying down His life.

There is no love more faithful, no friendship more enduring, and no companion more trustworthy than Jesus. He is truly a Friend like no other.

Elder Shirley Freeman